Dear , I have come to a realization that often times great people tend to want to shy away from looking , feeling , and showing their best, they have limiting mind sets about poverty and looking simple so that others will not judge them or feel uncomfortable around them. I also grew up seeing and hearing religious Christian folks glorify poverty because of beliefs that it is wrong to be rich, be abundant, glamorous example: my mum called me vain, extravagant just because I loved to take care of myself and look good, thank God those words didn’t influence me, as I grew up I found out that being glamorous, sexy , abundant, rich, extravagant is Gods will for me and also what most men like.
I AM GOING TO GIVE YOU IN THIS POST INSIGHTFUL STRATEGIES OF HOW TO TRANSFORM TO BECOME THE BEAUTY QUEEN THAT YOU ARE (AND REMEMBER NO MATTER HOW OLD/YOUNG YOU ARE YOU CAN MAKE IT HAPPEN)
Beauty starts from within it is called the ‘Golden Ratio’. When you are at peace on the inside, truly beautiful, respectful, emphatic, kind, loving it automatically shows on the outside. Then on the outside you begin to show yourself love by dressing nicely, doing your make up ,fixing your hair, painting your nails , and wearing jewelry, and being up to date on fashion it makes you feel better about yourself. Now I am not saying you can’t feel good without these things but they do play a vital role in feelings and enhance beauty..
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PRACTICAL USEFUL GUIDE ON HOW TO BECOME BEAUTIFUL INSIDE OUT
1. LOVE YOURSELF UNCONDITIONALLY: As I was growing up and my body was changing my mum used to constantly nag and body shame me, and my siblings would follow and do same and she would just laugh and urge them on, this really used to bring me down and made me have low self-esteem as a young adult. I had no one to tell me I was beautiful so I went through a series of struggles and being taken advantage of until I came slowly to a realization that I was in fact amazingly beautiful by kind people and Gods word. I also later found out that my mother’s hateful words was because she felt ugly and shameful therefore projected those feelings on me. This is a valuable lesson of knowing yourself and not allow others to project on you or vice versa, look into your soul and you will find your beauty there.
2. DRESS UP AND SHOW UP: No matter how awful you feel on any given day, remember somebody wished they were in your place, so dress up, look your possible best and most important feel your best, steal the show with your confidence, you will thank me later.
3. DO NOT TALK DOWN ON PEOPLE: Do not find pleasure in talking ,gossiping about others ,trying to bring them down just to feel good about yourself, it is a poor habit that will eventually over time make you ugly, bitter and depressed.
4. ALWAYS THRIVE TO BE YOUR BEST SELF: Close your eyes for a moment and imagine how your best self looks, feels, lives and who and where she hangs out with. Now act out your best self-every day, you may not have everything you envision but you can start where you are with what you have through continuous work and effort.
5. MAKE GOOD FRIENDS: It is cilche phrase but the fact still stands that you are the average of the five people you spend most of your time with, now is time for change , time to be beautiful inside and out. Make friends with people that have done this for themselves. You don’t have to physically see them or talk to them, you can follow them on social media and internet at large, read their books, listen to and watch their podcast. Examples of such personalities are: Oprah Winfrey, Terri Savelle Foy, Joyce Meyer, Nicki Minaji, Cardi B, Naa Ashokor and many more amazing women.
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