Being single is not always a walk in the park, especially when the media keeps rubbing couple goals in our faces everyday, they draw a concept of single people being unhappy, this though is far from the truth , and does not make a person incomplete without a significant other. . There are plenty of benefits that come along with living your life free of romantic relationships , Read on to know more.
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What does it mean to be Single?
Being Single could range from a person without a lover, a divorcee, or widowed. this could mean less sex, no confidant, and no friend to keep you company, than the average person with a partner.
How it is supposed to feel.
Most times very lonely and sad, yet a person who knows their own value and themselves can enjoy their own company without external influences and can be able to survive loneliness, desperation or sadness..
The Benefits of being Single.
Studies show that people who are in dsyfunctional marriages or in intimate relationships have more stress levels than single people , single people tend to be more mentally stable than people in relationships.
Single women have better mental health than married women , especially married women with young children.
Being single gives you freedom to use your time how you want, when a person is in a relationship they cannot disregard the needs and desires of the other .
As a single you don't need to worry about
pleasing anyone, you can enjoy more personal interest, career and over all well being.
Financial benefits include not worrying about the other spending or saving habits, and you can spend money on what you love 😘.
Singles enjoy more sex than people in n relationships, this is because a people in relationships may have sex everyday or a few times a week, and this gets old boring and annoying, the excitement and pleasure eventually fades and sex now becomes a norm or a job. while singles may not have sex in Months , getting sex again could become a whole new adventure.
P.S : If you still feel down about being single , remember that you are free to flirt with whoever , without feeling guilty and you can maintain close friends and make new ones all the time, where as in a relationship your partner consumes all your attention and affection.
How to be Single and Happy
1. Take time to enjoy your own company, without distractions from social media or chatting on the phone with a friend, you are truly ever alone when it is just you and your mind.
2. Take yourself out on multiple dates, to eat at your favorite restaurant , or to do your nails, get a good grooming , a massage, or basically anything that will make you happy, and try to chat with you while you are at it.
3. Channel all emotions to yourself anytime you feel desperate for another's attention.
4. Talk to a close friend or get a support group to. help you through lonely times.
5. Believe in Love, and believe you deserve it no matter what your situation is.
6. Take a good look in the mirror , do you truly like what you see? if you do, Go You, but if you don't then show up for yourself by taking regular showers, dress up, put on nice Clothes instead of wearing your pajamas all day, ( trust me it makes a difference), wash your hair and style it, put on subtle make up, and spend your day in a meaningful way.
Pro Tip: Never neglect your well being, while you are single,always stay focused on loving yourself, and be open to try new things and meet new people, don't rush into anything you are not mentally ready for. if you are a woman reading this don't forget to wash your hair , paint your nails, and be clean and tidy all over, do it for you.
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conclusion: Being single is the best time for self discovery and discipline and to build self love 💕 and compassion. Remember to do this for you, so your cup can overflow to others.